Divorce Source: My vent
Re: My vent
08/06/07 11:33 PM Edit
I am a mechanic. I get really rattled when people come in with a problem (generally men) and say "I'd fix it myself but I don't have the time" (then they stay there and watch me work) or they say I'd do it myself but I don't have the tool(s)" So I decided that I must simply be a brain dead moron with tools and time!!!I have long said that I was gonna put that on a shirt or change the name of my shop to it. Sorta has a ring to it...Brain Dead Morons With Tools And TimeWhat does that make all of us divorcees with all of this advice? I used to joke about someone who was divorced giving me marital advice! I was so smug. I really believed that I had done all the right things to protect and insulate my world from what it seems it is/has become now.I really understand that one cannot do it. It takes two, two who really want it and have the maturity, foresight, wearwithall and everything else involved to stay the course. To rough the bad weather for the sunshine. To be able to realize that no one is perfect nor will they stay the same, and just love them anyway. Ok, I apologize, I started to wander there. Well actually wandered a pretty good bit.What then is understanding gained, when the very means that rendered the understanding makes it obsolete? How about a shirt that says......Never, Never, Ever, say Never!!!
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Re: Excuse me but
NancyD 08/12/07 05:06 PM
I am missing out
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Re: I am missing out
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Re: My vent x 2
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Divorce Source: My vent
Re: My vent
08/06/07 11:33 PM Edit
I am a mechanic. I get really rattled when people come in with a problem (generally men) and say "I'd fix it myself but I don't have the time" (then they stay there and watch me work) or they say I'd do it myself but I don't have the tool(s)" So I decided that I must simply be a brain dead moron with tools and time!!!I have long said that I was gonna put that on a shirt or change the name of my shop to it. Sorta has a ring to it...Brain Dead Morons With Tools And TimeWhat does that make all of us divorcees with all of this advice? I used to joke about someone who was divorced giving me marital advice! I was so smug. I really believed that I had done all the right things to protect and insulate my world from what it seems it is/has become now.I really understand that one cannot do it. It takes two, two who really want it and have the maturity, foresight, wearwithall and everything else involved to stay the course. To rough the bad weather for the sunshine. To be able to realize that no one is perfect nor will they stay the same, and just love them anyway. Ok, I apologize, I started to wander there. Well actually wandered a pretty good bit.What then is understanding gained, when the very means that rendered the understanding makes it obsolete? How about a shirt that says......Never, Never, Ever, say Never!!!
08/05/07 01:11 PM
PhoenixRising 08/05/07 03:23 PM
Debi 08/05/07 02:30 PM
Badasp 08/05/07 03:36
 PM
Debi 08/05/07 05:15 PM
willybillie 08/05/07 06:28 PM
preemiemom 08/05/07 07:14 PM
willybillie 08/05/07 10:06 PM
1004SRS 08/05/07 06:45 PM
willybillie 08/05/07 07:56 PM
Badasp 08/05/07 05:41 PM
Debi 08/05/07 10:45 PM
yregna 08/08/07 04:17 PM
Badasp 08/05/07 11:08 PM
Debi 08/06/07 11:13 AM
Badasp 08/06/07 08:21 PM
Melanie1 08/07/07 09:03 AM
Badasp 08/07/07 09:10 AM
Debi 08/06/07 09:59 PM
JustMeAndThree 08/09/07 07:15 AM
Drew 08/09/07 07:38 AM
Debi 08/09/07 08:21 AM
Drew 08/09/07 10:36 AM
KiwiGirl 08/11/07 10:24 PM
Re: Excuse me but
NancyD 08/12/07 05:06 PM
I am missing out
KiwiGirl 08/12/07 07:54 PM
Re: I am missing out
Drew 08/12/07 11:21 PM
Debi 08/09/07 11:38 AM
Badasp 08/06/07 11:06 PM
Drew 08/06/07 11:33 PM
Redlegg 08/07/07 04:54 AM
Drew 08/07/07 07:43 AM
Redlegg 08/07/07 08:05 AM
Drew 08/07/07 01:23 PM
Redlegg 08/07/07 04:00 PM
Drew 08/07/07 07:08 PM
Badasp 08/07/07 03:53 PM
Drew 08/07/07 07:05 PM
1004SRS 08/07/07 07:08 PM
Drew 08/07/07 07:34 PM
Badasp 08/07/07 07:57 PM
willybillie 08/07/07 04:08 PM
1004SRS 08/07/07 04:15 PM
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1004SRS 08/07/07 06:25 PM
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Debi 08/06/07 11:42 AM
willybillie 08/05/07 06:20 PM
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