Ok so this morning I asked my 14 yr old to watch little one while I took a quick shower. (He is great with her and has done it before)
Hubby was still in bed, and he doesn’t usually help with the baby much anyways. So I get in the shower and my husband gets up and goes downstairs. I guess while I was in the shower he took the baby from our 14 year old and left. My 14 year old asked him where he was going and he said “none of your f***ing business” before he left. He didn’t say a word to me and didn’t text me to tell me he was going somewhere with the baby. My 8 yr old ran upstairs to tell me that their dad left with the baby so if I wonder where she is that’s where she is. Anyways to get to the point , I’m pissed. He has never been alone with her outside of the house, and that’s for 10 min max at home. I tried texting him but no response.
So my question, do I have the right to be furious or should I just chill out about it ?
This is super bizarre. Does he ever take the older child out alone unplanned like this?
I would be very upset too! Mostly for what he said to the 14yr old. I would also be worried that he wasn't responding to my texts and/or calls.
Morneil · Original Poster
This is super bizarre. Does he ever take the older child out alone unplanned ...
No he always lets me know that they are coming with him, and he has never taken the baby with without me.
I would be very upset too! Mostly for what he said to the 14yr old. I would a...
I am upset about how he talked to him as well. He told me recently that when he sees a text or phone call from me that most of the time he will just ingnore it if he is doing something else. (Whether it’s on his phone or in real life) 😓
No he always lets me know that they are coming with him, and he has never tak...
And they've been gone all day? I'd probably start calling people he's close to, anyone who might know what's happening.
Wow. I would be trying to hunt him down ASAP. That’s plain scary sounding to me.
I am upset about how he talked to him as well. He told me recently that when ...
I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. Praying he brings baby back soon and apologizes.
Are you guys having marital problems since baby was born? It seems like there’s something going on that’s making him miserable and in turn, he’s making you miserable. If DH (dear husband) took off with one of the twins and didn’t tell me where he was going, id be PISSED.
Honestly if it was me and that was out of character I’d probably text him and let him know if I didn’t hear from him in the next 10 minutes I was calling the police. Leaving with only one child angry like that is unsettling.
Did he come back is the baby safe???
Ok so this morning I asked my 14 yr old to watch little one while I took a quick shower. (He is great with her and has done it before)
Hubby was still in bed, and he doesn’t usually help with the baby much anyways. So I get in the shower and my husband gets up and goes downstairs. I guess while I was in the shower he took the baby from our 14 year old and left. My 14 year old asked him where he was going and he said “none of your f***ing business” before he left. He didn’t say a word to me and didn’t text me to tell me he was going somewhere with the baby. My 8 yr old ran upstairs to tell me that their dad left with the baby so if I wonder where she is that’s where she is. Anyways to get to the point , I’m pissed. He has never been alone with her outside of the house, and that’s for 10 min max at home. I tried texting him but no response.
So my question, do I have the right to be furious or should I just chill out about it ?
This is super bizarre. Does he ever take the older child out alone unplanned like this?
I would be very upset too! Mostly for what he said to the 14yr old. I would also be worried that he wasn't responding to my texts and/or calls.
Morneil · Original Poster
This is super bizarre. Does he ever take the older child out alone unplanned ...
No he always lets me know that they are coming with him, and he has n
ever taken the baby with without me.
I would be very upset too! Mostly for what he said to the 14yr old. I would a...
I am upset about how he talked to him as well. He told me recently that when he sees a text or phone call from me that most of the time he will just ingnore it if he is doing something else. (Whether it’s on his phone or in real life) 😓
No he always lets me know that they are coming with him, and he has never tak...
And they've been gone all day? I'd probably start calling people he's close to, anyone who might know what's happening.
Wow. I would be trying to hunt him down ASAP. That’s plain scary sounding to me.
I am upset about how he talked to him as well. He told me recently that when ...
I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. Praying he brings baby back soon and apologizes.
Are you guys having marital problems since baby was born? It seems like there’s something going on that’s making him miserable and in turn, he’s making you miserable. If DH (dear husband) took off with one of the twins and didn’t tell me where he was going, id be PISSED.
Honestly if it was me and that was out of character I’d probably text him and let him know if I didn’t hear from him in the next 10 minutes I was calling the police. Leaving with only one child angry like that is unsettling.
Did he come back is the baby safe???