Vent thread... 'Dear....' | Page 5 | Bub Hub
16-01-2012 09:32 #41
Dear Boss, no, i cannot squeeze one more thing in. We are down 80% of our team, and all the work is falling to me. I'm only here 3 days a week and I'm doing the work of 4 people. you do the maths. I'm not running your stinking event in June, I will be 7 months pregnant and about to go on (if not already on) maternity leave. I'm not running it, end of story. you will not be the cause of a work-related nervous breakdown, I refuse to let you be.
16-01-2012 11:45 #42
Please stop trying to fly. You are not a bird.
CluckySC (16-01-2012),rae81 (17-01-2012)
16-01-2012 11:50 #43
I appreciate and respect your concern about the Golden Globes not being appropriate viewing for your toy tiger, but mummy would really like to see the dresses.
CluckySC (16-01-2012),codex (16-01-2012),Mod-Nomsie (18-01-2012),sunnyflower (25-01-2012)
16-01-2012 11:51 #44
Toilet training is a big step forward in your life and ours, however taking me to the toilet with you every 5 mins to do an invisible poo is really starting to drive me a little insane, especially now I've realised you just want to pull off reams of toilet paper and not poo at all. It is however, very cute seeing your little bum toddle off down the hallway
BuffyLove (21-01-2012)
16-01-2012 11:54 #45
Dear belly babe,
While I appreciate you letting me know you're okay in there - I'd really love to eat something yummy (actually, anything at all) & not throw up.
I look forward to meeting you and hope that in the next few weeks as we head into the 2nd trimester you stop making mummy so sick. It makes it hard to look after your big brother.
16-01-2012 12:01 #46
Grow the f**k up. If our daughter is in your care and she is sick and needs the Dr..TAKE HER THERE. Don't call me 50 times until I either come get her myself, or you drop her off here so I can take her to the GP. I don't enjoy waiting there, nor do I enjoy waiting several hours at the hospital. But I do it, because my child needs me. In 8 years you have not sat at the hospital with either of our children despite both of them being hospitalised several times. Are you not ashamed another man is by their side every.single.time? A man who willingly gets in trouble from his already shaky job, by leaving early or not coming in, to be with YOUR children? The same man who pays for the roof over their heads, food in their bellies and all their activities?
Next time our beautiful DD cries because she doesn't want to spend time with you, take a look in the mirror and stop blaming me. Despite my hatred of your pathetic parenting skills, I have never said a word to her, or YOU about it!I'll just shut up, smile and keep paying, doing and pretending we are best friends, because thats what our children need, and deserve.
Lots of hate and the desire to punch you in your ugly face,
Ex (who is very glad she walked away all those years ago)
16-01-2012 12:27 #47
Spending quality time with you kids does not mean sitting on your ar*e on the couch with your ipad while the kids play in front of you. Yet you complain you don't see them enough due to your long work hours.
We live in and own a house. With that comes responsibility like mowing lawns, cleaning pools, and general house maintenance. Please get off your aforementioned ar*se and do some of it! I cannot do it all by myself. AND when I ask you if you would mind doing some of it, do not just say 'you just need to tell me to do these things and I'll do it'............ I AM NOT YOUR MOTHER! You take the initiative and do it!
When you offer to clean the kitchen after I've been slaving in it all day, please clean it properly ie stack dishwasher correctly and wipe the benches. Otherwise I just have to come along afterwards and secretly clean it properly cause if you catch me you get all huffy and whinge saying why should you bother doing it all.
This! Enough already ffs, and wash your left over tuna juice down the drain. I don't like smelling that ****.
Thanks. Butthead.
16-01-2012 12:41 #48
Dear MIL & FIL
You are evil. We have been so happy since your son cut you out of our lives years ago. You made everyone miserable and created such drama all the time. Everything was always about you and you were NEVER wrong. Your son told you about how awful his childhood was and so many issues about you as parents and you say nothing?? Just tell him HE is the one being nasty by opening up to you?? You are horrible, suppressive and totally in denial . You were given the opportunity to grow and change yet you still see fit to act like children and treat my husband like he's one too. You claim to be living in your "happy memories" and fill your house with old photos. You damaged your relationship and couldn't care you aren't apart of your own sons life and your grandson?! What about your grandson. You were given an opportunity to show you have changed recently and fulfill a promise you made in the past and you declined. You went around in circles, played the power trip and tried to twist it all onto your son. You honestly choose not to see or believe that it is actually YOUR fault for not being a part of our sons life?? Ignorance ignorance ignorance. Oh and don't bother to ask how your sons family is whilst you had the first opportunity to in years. But no instead you argue. You actually choose after all this time of not being part of our lives to argue?? We thought you would have changed. You will never change. You choose not to. You choose to live in your little false reality and denial about everything. You live in the past and it drives me insane. I don't know how you sleep at night. I cannot stand either of you. No matter what I say or my husband says you do not learn. It's like talking to a wall. We tried soo many times to make it work. I had faith so many times and you just knocked me down. All the issues and heartache you both caused is not even something that can be counted. My husband is a good man and doesnt deserve this. Shame on both of you. Continue to enjoy your life pretending you don't have a grandson and that your adult children are still 10 (and of course forgetting your son & daughter haven't spoken in 5 years because of the crazy, unhealthy, jealousy and possessiveness she showed... Hmm I wonder where that came from)???
god why on earth did I deserve such horrible horrible wack job in-laws????!!!!!
16-01-2012 12:55 #49
Seeing as I am pregnant, looking after our 2 year old, attending to house wife duties, working at least 2 night shifts a week and cleaning up after you A*#, do you think you could at least try and be nice to me ya grumpy pr**k! anyone would think it was you who was hormonal!
Ahhhh, that feels better!!
16-01-2012 13:14 #50
Just because I am 30 weeks pregnant does not mean that is solely the reason for my grumpy self in the mornings. I understand that we both have been a little sleep deprived in the last 3 nights.
It may have something to do with our 18 month old DD having just had her tonsils out and adenoids scraped, and her waking 8-100 times a night in our room next to me in her cot.
Maybe you could try getting up to get her when I nudge you and say, she needs (insert anything here) instead of getting sh!tty that you aren't getting enough sleep.
Oh, you got up twice last night? I'm so eternally sorry. I didn't realise you were dad of the year for that. You are awesome most of the time, but this is not the time to slack off and b!tch about YOUR lack of sleep!! I would like some too!!
Vent thread... 'Dear....' | Page 5 | Bub Hub
16-01-2012 09:32 #41
Dear Boss, no, i cannot squeeze one more thing in. We are down 80% of our team, and all the work is falling to me. I'm only here 3 days a week and I'm doing the work of 4 people. you do the maths. I'm not running your stinking event in June, I will be 7 months pregnant and about to go on (if not already on) maternity leave. I'm not running it, end of story. you will not be the cause of a work-related nervous breakdown, I refuse to let you be.
16-01-2012 11:45 #42
Please stop trying to fly. You are not a bird.
CluckySC (16-01-2012),rae81 (17-01-2012)
16-01-2012 11:50 #43
I appreciate and respect your concern about the Golden Globes not being appropriate viewing for your toy tiger, but mummy would really like to see the dresses.
CluckySC (16-01-2012),codex (16-01-2012),Mod-Nomsie (18-01-2012),sunnyflower (25-01-2012)
16-01-2012 11:51 #44
Toilet training is a big step forward in your life and ours, however taking me to the toilet with you every 5 mins to do an invisible poo is really starting to drive me a little insane, especially now I've realised you just want to pull off reams of toilet paper and not poo at all. It is however, very cute seeing your little bum toddle off down the hallway
BuffyLove (21-01-2012)
16-01-2012 11:54 #45
Dear belly babe,
While I appreciate you letting me know you're okay in there - I'd really love to eat something yummy (actually, anything at all) & not throw up.
I look forward to meeting you and hope that in the next few weeks as we head into the 2nd trimester you stop making mummy so sick. It makes it hard to look after your big brother.
16-01-2012 12:01 #46
Grow the f**k up. If our daughter is in your care and she is sick and needs the Dr..TAKE HER THERE. Don't call me 50 times until I either come get her myself, or you drop her off here so I can take her to the GP. I don't enjoy waiting there, nor do I enjoy waiting several hours at the hospital. But I do it, because my child needs me. In 8 years you have not sat at the hospital with either of our children despite both of them being hospitalised several times. Are you not ashamed another man is by their side every.single.time? A man who willingly gets in trouble from his already shaky job, by leaving early or not coming in, to be with YOUR children? The same man who pays for the roof over their heads, food in their bellies and all their activities?
Next time our beautiful DD cries because she doesn't want to spend time with you, take a look in the mirror and stop blaming me. Despite my hatred of your pathetic parenting skills, I have never said a word to her, or YOU about it!I'll just shut up, smile and keep paying, doing and pretending we are best friends, because thats what our children need, and deserve.
Lots of hate and the desire to punch you in your ugly face,
Ex (who is very glad she walked away all those years ago)
16-01-2012 12:27 #47
Spending quality time with you kids does not mean sitting on your ar*e on the couch with your ipad while the kids play in front of you. Yet you complain you don't see them enough due to your long work hours.
We live in and own a house. With that comes responsibility like mowing lawns, cleaning pools, and general house maintenance. Please get off your aforementioned ar*se and do some of it! I cannot do it all by myself. AND when I ask you if you would mind doing some of it, do not just say 'you just need to tell me to do these things and I'll do it'............ I AM NOT YOUR MOTHER! You take the initiative and do it!
When you offer to clean the kitchen after I've been slaving in it all day, please clean it properly ie stack dishwasher correctly and wipe the benches. Otherwise I just have to come along afterw
ards and secretly clean it properly cause if you catch me you get all huffy and whinge saying why should you bother doing it all.
This! Enough already ffs, and wash your left over tuna juice down the drain. I don't like smelling that ****.
Thanks. Butthead.
16-01-2012 12:41 #48
Dear MIL & FIL
You are evil. We have been so happy since your son cut you out of our lives years ago. You made everyone miserable and created such drama all the time. Everything was always about you and you were NEVER wrong. Your son told you about how awful his childhood was and so many issues about you as parents and you say nothing?? Just tell him HE is the one being nasty by opening up to you?? You are horrible, suppressive and totally in denial . You were given the opportunity to grow and change yet you still see fit to act like children and treat my husband like he's one too. You claim to be living in your "happy memories" and fill your house with old photos. You damaged your relationship and couldn't care you aren't apart of your own sons life and your grandson?! What about your grandson. You were given an opportunity to show you have changed recently and fulfill a promise you made in the past and you declined. You went around in circles, played the power trip and tried to twist it all onto your son. You honestly choose not to see or believe that it is actually YOUR fault for not being a part of our sons life?? Ignorance ignorance ignorance. Oh and don't bother to ask how your sons family is whilst you had the first opportunity to in years. But no instead you argue. You actually choose after all this time of not being part of our lives to argue?? We thought you would have changed. You will never change. You choose not to. You choose to live in your little false reality and denial about everything. You live in the past and it drives me insane. I don't know how you sleep at night. I cannot stand either of you. No matter what I say or my husband says you do not learn. It's like talking to a wall. We tried soo many times to make it work. I had faith so many times and you just knocked me down. All the issues and heartache you both caused is not even something that can be counted. My husband is a good man and doesnt deserve this. Shame on both of you. Continue to enjoy your life pretending you don't have a grandson and that your adult children are still 10 (and of course forgetting your son & daughter haven't spoken in 5 years because of the crazy, unhealthy, jealousy and possessiveness she showed... Hmm I wonder where that came from)???
god why on earth did I deserve such horrible horrible wack job in-laws????!!!!!
16-01-2012 12:55 #49
Seeing as I am pregnant, looking after our 2 year old, attending to house wife duties, working at least 2 night shifts a week and cleaning up after you A*#, do you think you could at least try and be nice to me ya grumpy pr**k! anyone would think it was you who was hormonal!
Ahhhh, that feels better!!
16-01-2012 13:14 #50
Just because I am 30 weeks pregnant does not mean that is solely the reason for my grumpy self in the mornings. I understand that we both have been a little sleep deprived in the last 3 nights.
It may have something to do with our 18 month old DD having just had her tonsils out and adenoids scraped, and her waking 8-100 times a night in our room next to me in her cot.
Maybe you could try getting up to get her when I nudge you and say, she needs (insert anything here) instead of getting sh!tty that you aren't getting enough sleep.
Oh, you got up twice last night? I'm so eternally sorry. I didn't realise you were dad of the year for that. You are awesome most of the time, but this is not the time to slack off and b!tch about YOUR lack of sleep!! I would like some too!!