Tammyc1106 are you kidding me?! Eating Bon bins and watching soap operas on the couch?! Honey, I've had a "real job" I even worked in a factory on my feet eleven hours a day next to a hot furnace beforefor and peaches, none of those jobs even compared to the difficulty of being a stay at home mom. So you can shut the hell up.
At the risk of being judged, I can empathize with her. All I can say is see a good therapist and confess to the guy. I have done something very similar (not exactly the same) when I was 14. However I have not had the emotional attachment you seem to have. Therapy worked for me, so I would think it would work for you too.
Never confess to the ex. That would be selfish, even if he may know. NEVER!! That said, you could of never loved this guy or you wouldn't have cheat with his dad.You need to rethink the meaning of love if you think you are now or ever was in love with the ex. You also need to get over it. Everyone makes mistakes but nobody should let one action ruin their entire life.It sounds like you are using this as an excuse for you're divorce and other bad things in life. If you need to confess, go to a therapist or clergy. Don't get mixed up in exs life again. You already crossed that bridge, now burn it. I wish you the best of luck but don't throw you're guilt on the ex and his family.
Tammyc1106 are you kidding me?! Eating Bon bins and watching soap operas on the couch?! Honey, I've had a "real job" I even worked in a factory on my feet eleven hours a day next to a hot furnace beforefor and peaches, none of those jobs even compared to the difficulty of being a stay at home mom. So you can shut the hell up.
At the risk of being judged, I can empathize with her. All I can say is see a good therapist and confess to the guy. I have done something very similar (not exactly the same) when I was 14. However I have not had the emotional attachment you seem to have. Therapy worked for me, so I would think it would work for you too.
Never confess to 
the ex. That would be selfish, even if he may know. NEVER!! That said, you could of never loved this guy or you wouldn't have cheat with his dad.You need to rethink the meaning of love if you think you are now or ever was in love with the ex. You also need to get over it. Everyone makes mistakes but nobody should let one action ruin their entire life.It sounds like you are using this as an excuse for you're divorce and other bad things in life. If you need to confess, go to a therapist or clergy. Don't get mixed up in exs life again. You already crossed that bridge, now burn it. I wish you the best of luck but don't throw you're guilt on the ex and his family.